Solitary Pursuits

While I thoroughly enjoy spending time with my friends and family, as an introvert, I’ve discovered that I often must balance my time spent socializing with the time devoted to more solitary pursuits. As my dad would say, I need time to “re-charge my social battery.”

For example, this weekend in itself was a demonstration of said balancing. I spent much of the past few days partying it up at the lake with my family:

However, there were also a few moments I reserved for myself:

A nature walk by the lakeside

A puzzle made and sent to me by Seth

What kind of “solitary pursuits” do you partake in to maintain your well-being?

Perhaps the solitary pursuit I partake in most often is cooking. Take a look at what’s been rolling out of my kitchen since Friday…

Saturday

After an exhilarating run yesterday morning, I returned home hungry for a savory breakfast. After a little rummaging through the refrigerator,  I came up with an Italian-inspired breakfast pita.

Between a visit to the farmers’ market and a long boat ride, I managed to squeeze in a quick lunch.

I was anxious to use some of my farmers’ market eggplant, so I made a simple ratatouille for dinner.

Sunday

For breakfast this morning, I made a variation on my Tofu-Banana French Toast by making them into sticks and dipping them into a maple syrup-almond butter sauce.

Before heading home, I had another hummus-centric meal.

When I returned home I became quite immersed in completing Seth’s puzzle, and before I knew it, dinner time had arrived. Accordingly, I put together a simple salad. Love this Annie’s dressing!

In honor of National Ice Cream Day, my parents and I made a return to Yogurt Mountain. Fro-yo craving finally satisfied.

Don’t forget to enter my cookbook giveaway before tomorrow at 8PM! Good night.

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14 Responses to “Solitary Pursuits”

  1. I didn’t used to EVER need solitary time. I loved being around people at all times. I don’t know if it was growing up or Duke or what but now if I don’t have a few hours to myself my brain starts to go into overdrive and I get a little weird.

    Your french toast sticks remind me of this kitchen gadget I saw at Bed Bath and Beyond that you could press onto toast and it sliced into 4 pieces…..OR you could just cut it yourself haha. Needless to say I didn’t buy it :)

  2. Yup, I love having “me” time! There are those instances where I just want some time alone, doing things by myself. I would call myself an introvert too.
    I was just looking at your tofu-banana french toast recipe and it looks so simple and delicious! I really wanna try it when I get back home. And I find it so cute that your boy sends you puzzles :D

  3. You’ve got it sussed m’dear. Life is all about balance. I am definitely inclined to be solitary but I know it’s important for my wellbeing to be spend time with others so I deal with that by taking plenty of time for myself so its not so overwhelming and more enjoyable :) I can do anything on my own- walking is a great one, just me and my thoughts…
    That tofu, banana french toast is definitely a must-try for me.
    Love xx

  4. You and Greta are true beauties :) and your eats look fabulous as usual – so inspiring!

    xoxo Mel

  5. Glad you had a fun trip and managed some time for yourself! While I love being with people, I always need some “me” time.

  6. I’m the same way. I’ll spend a day or two with friends and then need some time to recharge by myself. I usually do so by just having a nice meal by myself, go spend time with my horse, or whatever else that’s just relaxing.

  7. I’ve definitely become more of an introvert over the years, but for some reason, I don’t mind being around my family–it’s a lot more relaxing than being with peers. Perhaps it’s because I’m so comfortable with them and know that they can respect my need to read a book and have quiet time??

  8. I am very much an introvert and love moments by myself to recharge my social battery. My job requires me to be more of an extrovert so I find my nights and weeks tend to be on the quiet side – I love to cook and run as well!

  9. amen sista! i’ve been spending UBER time with the family and sometimes it’s nice to just get your own r&r on and get in some “me (or you haha)” time!

    although i do love me a good tubing ride ;)

  10. HOW FUN!!!! I was to go to a lake for a weekend getaway!! And fro yo is my addiction lately

  11. I am extremely introverted. :) I love me some solitude. When I need to recharge, I like to read an old favorite, play piano, write in my journal, or go for a walk while listening to movie soundtracks.

    After seeing the various meals in this post, I am quite inspired to make something similar!

  12. I love having time to myself to like you say, “recharge my batteries”. Whether i’m simply watching a dvd, or away out for a nice walk, i sometimes only need my own company! I really like going for a walk in the rain, but only if i have an umberella and it’s not windy rain! Eugh!!!

    Some yummmmy looking foods. I can totally relate on the jigsaw thing! A cuople of weeks ago i was trying to do a 5000 peice jigsaw and i’d only got about thew a fifth of it in 3 hours..the time whizzed by!!! xx

  13. I’m the same way. If I get too much time around people I start tuning everyone out. It is not on purpose; my brain needs a rest from all the talking.

    It looks like you had a great time at the lake. Hopefully you didn’t lose your swim suit or are sore today.

  14. I love alone time. I need it. I usually go for walks, runs and definitely cook/bake. I thinking baking is the best stress reliever. The lake looks so so beautiful. And I always enjoy seeing the different hummus sandwiches you come up with. Good luck with the apartment hunt and enjoy your time with the man <3

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